Generation Y and a sense of entitlement
I was recently asked, “Do you think Generation Y has a sense of entitlement?”
I was born in 1983 so I fit the bill for Gen Y. While I agree that people in my generation do feel like they can do ANYTHING and that they deserve the best that the world has to offer, I don’t think that labeling it a “sense of entitlement” is the correct spin to put on it.
I prefer to think of it as an imagination revolution. Gen Y-ers are realizing that their dreams can really come true. We don’t think that the world owes something but we DO think that the world has more to offer than previous generations.
Look at how far we’ve come in the last 20 years. The Internet, overcoming the Cold War, Web 2.0, 9/11, a biracial president, and what’s next? Why shouldn’t we feel like life has more to offer us than ever before? Why shouldn’t we look to all the possibilities of the world with wonder and excitement and ask, “What’s next? What’s next for me? What’s next for us?”
I encourage people my age to reclaim their sense of worth. I don’t call it a sense of entitlement. Maybe that exists but I just don’t see it. It’s an imagination revolution. We’ve figured it out and we’re going places with it.
-Heidi Briones, Lifestyle Designer
What is a lifestyle designer?
What do you mean by “lifestyle designer”? – D’An
I got the term from Tim Ferriss’, author of The Four Hour Workweek. You should definitely buy this book immediately. It WILL change your life.
A lifestyle designer is someone who decides to reject the notion of the deferred life-plan that so many subscribe to. Most people think they should go to school, get a job, work at that job until they retire, and then do whatever they want.
A lifestyle designer chooses to do what they want to do NOW. That’s right, right now. There is no reason to defer your life until you can no longer enjoy it. Why spend your healthiest years working (read: slaving) for someone else? It’s time to take control of your life and do what makes you happy now.
A lifestyle designer is time-wealthy. They may not be “rich” but they have automated some cash flow so that they can have lots of time at their disposal.
A lifestyle designer chooses to live NOW. To be more productive, have more fun, automate more income, and LIVE more.
That’s why I consider myself a lifestyle designer and I strive to be a part of this movement.
If you want to be a lifestyle designer then the first time is think about what you really want. What would you do, daily, if you have $100 million in the bank? Chances are that it’s a lot more doable than you realize. Write down exactly what you want and strive to make that happen in the next 3, 6, or 12 months. Always have a goal, set it HIGH, and stick to it.
I hope that helps you to understand more about lifestyle design. Pick up Tim’s book for more info.
-Heidi
Tapping Into Your Inner Expert
“An expert is a man [or woman] who has made all the mistakes which can be made, in a narrow field.” – — Niels Henrik David Bohr
You’re an expert. Yep, you. If you’re reading this right now then I guarantee you’re an expert at something.
Maybe you already knew that. If so, congrats. You’re ahead of most of the population.
Many people think that they are not EXCELLENT at any one thing. Maybe they know they’re good at a few things but they definitely don’t consider themselves experts.
Well, most people (again) are WRONG.
You are an expert at something.
I recently participated in a webinar/Q & A with author Tim Ferriss. He coined the term lifestyle design, wrote the book “The Four Hour Workweek” and helps people build their businesses with mobility in mind.
He often recommends that people define themselves as an expert in ONE arena and run with it. Come out with some information products, sell products, and set themselves up for the coveted four hour work week.
However, many people, can’t think of anything that they are experts at.
Tim offers this suggestion: “Ask yourself: What makes me weird?”
Seriously, what makes you weird? Do you like birdhouses? Synchronized swimming? Building birdhouses whiel synchonized swimming?
Maybe what makes you weird isn’t even that weird at all. Are you really good at snowboarding and like to do yoga? Well, maybe you’re an expert at yoga positions for snowboarders. Sound weird enough to you?
Here’s your homework: Make a list of all the stuff that you enjoy doing. Then rate each item on the list on a scale of 1 – 5. 5 being “I’m really really good at this” and 1 being “Just a hobby”. Then when you’re finished take a look at the list and circle everything that you listed as a 3 or better.
If you think hard enough, you should be able to figure out that you’re an expert in SOMETHING. If not, put the list away and look at it again in a few days. I guarantee that if nothing else, this exercise will get you thinking about yourself and the value that you could offer the world if you’d only tap into it.
