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Fight for what you love or let it go

  New rule:  Before you let something into your life (whether a person, place, or thing), ask yourself, “is this worth fighting for?” For instance, let’s say you like someone a lot. Maybe you’re dating. Maybe you’re just acquaintances. Before you become close, you have to decide if this person is worth fighting for. If…

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2017 Recap – Lessons Learned

  As another year wraps up, it’s a good time to reflect on what you have learned and what you can bring into the next year. I don’t believe in resolutions. I find them boring and mostly useless for me. I find it highly valuable to reflect and meditate on lessons learned and also to…

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What love feels like to me

    Listen, I’m no expert on love. In fact, I’m more of an expert on heartbreak. But, dammit, I know what love feels like and I believe it’s the reason we were all put on this Earth. Fuck money. Fuck fame. Fuck everything else that isn’t pure love. From my perspective, love is intense…

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Goodbye Arizona (a lesson in reframing)

I moved to Arizona in July of 2015. I came for a PhD program at Northern Arizona University and was to study linguistics and become a professor. However, I ended up dropping out before the end of my first year. Now, I could frame this whole event in several different ways. First of all, I…

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Tai Lopez is not a scam (67 Steps Review)

Lots of people hate Tai Lopez. Me? I love him. His particular marketing strategy might be a little brash, but after completing his 67 steps program, I don’t see how I couldn’t love the guy. I found Tai the same way that most of us have come across him: YouTube ads. He’s the master of…

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I fell for a Bitcoin ponzi scam (a cautionary tale)

It’s embarrassing to admit, but I fell for a Bitcoin ponzi scam about six months ago. At the time, I was making a lot of money (for me) at my sales jobs. I felt on top of the world and like nothing could touch me. I made two fatal mistakes. 1: I thought that I…

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You’re a lazy piece of shit (and that’s okay)

Everyone is lazy. I know what you’re thinking. Either you’re thinking, “yes, I am a lazy piece of dog turd, Heidi” OR  “no, you might be lazy but I grind my face off”  Seriously. You’re lazy. Every single human is lazy. The part that matters is that we’re all lazy about completely different things. The…

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How I quit biting my nails (how Pavlok and volts will make me rich)

Since I can remember, I have bitten my nails until they bled. I’d bite the entire nail, I’d bite the cuticle, and I’d bite the skin. I was brutal and it showed. Not anymore. Sounds cheesy, I know but I really had tried everything before. Nasty cream for your fingers that makes your pizza taste…

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Why other people annoy me

Do you ever just look at someone and get annoyed? Just hate seeing their face incites anger? This happens to me all the time, and I may have figured out why. I follow this rad chick named Katrina Ruth on Facebook, and she posted something about this today. She said (and I’m paraphrasing), “the reason…

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Living in Taiwan

     

I lived in Asia for nearly three years in my 20’s. It was an enlightening, beautiful, frustrating, crazy-making, fun-loving time of my life. I’ll share just a little bit of what it was like with you, at least what I can remember. In 2007, I decided to ditch law school and head…

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